Okay, so I tried to customize my urls throught the permalink settings. WordPress says the insert this into my .htaccess because the file is not writable.
'<IfModule mod_rewrite.c>
RewriteEngine On
RewriteBase /
RewriteRule ^index\.php$ - [L]
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_FILENAME} !-f
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_FILENAME} !-d
RewriteRule . /index.php [L]
</IfModule>'
Well the only .htaccess file i see is in my logs folder. Which 1and1 will not let me edit or change the permissions for. I believe I read on 1and1 faq to create a .htaccess file and put it in the folder i want it to effect. I also read somewhere to put this in the wpcontent folder. So I pasted that code in notepad, names the file .htaccess and uploaded it to wpcontent. This did nothing. So then I moved it to my (/.) folder. That knocked down my whole site.
Its so confusing. Different articles say to do different stuff. All I want is wordpress to be able to overwrite my .htaccess file and allow me to have custom permalinks. How do i do this? I've looked through similiar topics on this forum and they havent helped.