page links to plugin breaks fold page list plugin

i’m using to WP as a CMS, with most of my content in pages. I have a hierarchy of pages like this

Products
* alarms
* blenders
Contact
Team
* alan
* bob
* carl
Blog

which provides 2 interesting challenges for getting the menu to work:

1) when a page has children, i just want it as a menu section heading — in otherwords you shouldn’t be able to click on “products”. you should only be able to click on “alarms”. “contact”, on the other hand, has no children — so in this case, it should link to a real “contact” page.

2) most of these menu items will be pages, but a couple will link to blog (which is not a page), or even link offsite.

i solved both problems with the Page Links To plugin
http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/page-links-to/
(actually only version 1.4 solved both problems)

–BUT–

now it’s broken my simple accordion menus that i was achieving through
Fold Page Links
http://www.webspaceworks.com/resources/wordpress/30/

naturally, i have no idea why or what to do. but i know my client wants those menus to expand / contract.

eek.

any ideas?

thanks.