youre reading what I am saying in the complete opposite manner of what Im trying, too subtly it appears, to get you to do -- im trying to get you to ask for another set of eyes. if not mine, then someone elses.
There's no face lost in getting help, whether its for the simplest of tasks ( to some ) or the hardest. There isnt even lost face in asking someone to do something for you ("fix it for me") - On the contrary, being too prideful to know when to ask for help .. well that can stand in the way of a lot of things.
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My final answer is that what you are asking for has already been answered, countless times. Unfortunately.
What you see here, and what you google, is what there is. There isnt a secretly hidden panacea, a gem of knowledge waiting to be unearthed.
When I, personally, clean up exploited sites, I, generally, look at all the permissions, all the files, all of the database.
Whats left? The specifics, all of which are already covered elsewhere.
PS:
http://wordpress.org/support/topic/154429?replies=5
the above post is 8 months old. I point that ought not to make this issue of contention, but to further stress what Ive been saying all along.
You need another pair of eyes.