Well I guess I haven't presented myself well...sorry (but no need to 'sigh", it's condescending)...
First let me say that my purpose in using WordPress is to add a blog to a my own unique (in design) website. From what I have seen as linked examples this is possible. But what I am unclear about is how to accomplish that. I see how I can “fiddle� with the default index.php to customize it. What is lacking in the documentation is a transition from installation to the use of Tags and the manipulation of the underlying CSS. What do you do (exactly) after you install WP?
I am an intermediate PHP programmer with good HTML and CSS skills. I write my source using the text editor jEdit running under Gentoo Linux, so it would seem that I may know a little about the web, among other things. I've written help documentation myself, including a 150 page research paper for my Master's degree which explains (documents) a cost model for OpenSource Total Cost of Ownership, so I know the 'flow'. And, I've worked on an end-user support help desk...that should explain my affinity for 'everything documented'. I could eventually figure it out, but I would also think that it should be easier. I'm not asking to be 'spoon-fed', 'jumpstart' is a better word.
The help with Tags, Templates, CSS, etc. appears to be very good. And the user supplied links to help are ...well, helpful. What is missing is the connection between installing WP and what to do with these Tags? What are they for? Simply explaining what they do is not enough.
Think of a car:
You can document what a fuel injector is and what it does, but without any knowledge of how it fits into a car, or why it is needed at all, or what is required to install it including 'dependencies'...the fuel injector docs are not so helpful. They need to show a connection to the whole no matter how good they are alone.
Like I said I could (and probably will) understand it mostly on my own.
So then my questions are (as if I haven't littered this post with questions already):
How do I go about adding WP to my website? Do I need to use the WP CSS? If so do I need all of it? Do all pages that access the WP functionality need to reside within the WP directory. I am assuming that any pages that use WP functions need a 'require_once' statement...is anything else mandatory?
A simple help topic on 'the minimum requirements for using you own HTML and CSS' would be very helpful! With source code, of course.
You see, if I stick with the default design I could be up and running very quickly. I want more, but I think others do, too. I can't believe that I am the only one who has asked these questions? Now here is the proper place for a sigh...