Come on Adam, that’s a simple 3 column theme with basic header and footer. You could either create a similar theme or atleast re-purpose an already created theme? As for the way the header is outside main content, search for some tutorials on css and php, and maybe even (x)html would be helpful.
Also, google is your friend, simple search terms like free wordpress themes are amazing. Not trying to be synical but I’m sure the other members and moderators have better things to do than to look for a theme for you.
I’ll give you one last piece of free advice. Here is a good site to start learning how to do some of the things you like about other websites: http://www.w3schools.com/
Good Luck
hey dtiger2k, its the computer illiterate here, hey thats a great link (w3schools.com) thanks!
dtiger2k: I appreciate your response to this question and have only a slightly related question, but I was hoping to get to you:
Re: PAGES. Is there any way I can have a different theme for the PAGES, i.e., not the same one as my POSTS?
You can’t use different themes for different pages but you can create different template files to make your pages look different. Here is a Codex that might be helpful for that: http://codex.wordpress.org/Pages