Looks like this is related to Bulletproof Security plugin..post in their forum area:
http://wordpress.org/support/plugin/bulletproof-security
What led up to this? Did you update anything? You could ftp into your server and remove the theme and it would default back to the default theme which is a basic troubleshooting technique. The same could be done with deleting plugins as well. Once you identify what may be causing it (theme or plugin) you can then troubleshoot that specific thing.
I appreciate you help, I have not been in to the back end of my site for about 2-3 months. If you go to the site it self it is fine from the out side, it is just the word press login
Ok. You can still try to troubleshoot using the ftp suggestion I made since you can’t get into the site any other way.
Sorry you are talking to a blonde female.
If I ftp into my server and remove the theme and it would default back to the default theme which is a basic troubleshooting technique that will not give me access to my site? through Word Press will it??
Your issue seems t be with BulletProof Security Plugin like Pioneer Valley Web Design has mentioned. You could ask in that plugin authors forum or find out the issue from reading others. You’ll get better results.