Looking for a Magazine Theme with widget based menu

I’m tired of looking for themes that don’t have what I look for, and my wallet can’t afford to buy all the themes that looks fantastic. Therefore, i ask you guys for some help.

The most important things for me in a theme:
1. The possibility to have a different custom menu on every category, page, or even posts. Preferable with widgets(easy with usage of the “widgets logic”-plugin). If there is some plugin for this, it would be interesting to look at those as well.

2. A magazine design. “Felici”(look for a preview below) has a near perfect functionality and design, except the menu option and the fact it using “hades framework”, that I can’t stand. Without the hades, I would made this custom.

http://themeforest.net/item/felici-wordpress-magazine-theme/full_screen_preview/1519835

3. I want a theme that I can control within functions.php (or my private plugin that talks with functions.php). In Felici, I would have the custom menu just above the content area/under the 2nd. menu, where the links to Twitter, Facebook, RSS, LinkedIn and Stumble is placed now.

4. Structure on the theme should be SEO-optimized.

Does something like this exists, or do I have to improvise? I’m an SEO analyst as profession, regrettably not a designer/php idiot.

[please do not bump]