Our host has shut us down as they said:
the MySQL database is causing problems not helping things with spawning multiple connections, from the MySQL process list ie ->
| 208961 | web188-a-word-66 | localhost | web188-a-word-66 | Sleep | 288 |
And gives us a list like the above with Sleep in it....
They wont switch us back on until we resolve it but I have NO idea how to!