So what it boils down to is that you are withholding the help you could give because you are upset that I won't post my url for fear of getting hacked. That's not very fair, is it? I have too much to lose, so I won't be bullied into posting my url.
You don't need to be psychic, you don't need my url in order to help me, all you need to do is look at any twentyten site (there are millions out there), or the CSS, or the index pages I posted before. To say otherwise is disingenuous.
I have looked at the articles about hardening WordPress to attacks, and I've looked at the stuff about brute force attacks. Nevertheless, the last time myself and many others were attacked, there was a theory circulating that hackers looking for soft targets would cruise help forums such as these. It seemed to make sense at the time, because anecdotally, the only thing the victims had in common was the help forum. I've heard of it happening on other content management system's forums, and forum software help forums. It may not be empirical evidence, but it's enough for me, combined with painful experience, to weigh the risks and choose not to post my url when you don't actually need it.
If you don't want to help me then don't, but don't pretend there is a need for me to post my url in order to facilitate understanding.
Can somebody delete my account, please. I've had enough of this.