Hi I'm running 2 sites on a shared server at dreamhost getting about 1000 hits a day and am constantly out of php memory and my processes are getting killed.
I have monitoring the memory and each site is over 40. Is that normal. I think it's the plug-ins but the ones I have, I want so I am moving to a VPS.
I am hoping for my site to grow and wanted some input as to what the memory should be for a busy site.