HELP!!!!!!!!! I Need Membership Profile Pages With Uploadable Content On Them.

I am about to launch an Artist Community Website with a store and lots of features & functionality. The Problem is, that I can’t find a WP Plugin that allows member profiles with uploadable content on them. I’ve found many, but they all differ in their functions…Some work, while other, don’t have or offer what I need! I DON’T have ANY membership features added yet, because BuddyPress is NOT compatible with my Continuum Template (Don’t want to use Buddypress at all). All my content is mostly done, but I need to implement a Membership plug-in that allows members to have access and fuctionality within ,my site and template. I NEED>>>>>>>>>>>A membership Plugin that will allow viewers to register, then sign in and create their PROFILE and ADD Photos, Videos, Music, and a Bio, and maybe flyers PDF’s to their Profile Page. Also need them to be found and listed in a members area, by category/genre etc. I need when members SIGN IN, for them to be re-Directed to their Person Profile page, that is searchable and viewable to all members. I also, Need Members to DISPLAY in a Facebook Plug-in style gallery way (3 or 4 columns if possible)…and lastly will it work with other WP Plugins like Marketpress 2.7 (I Might Use For Stores), eMember, Shopping cart style, Paid-wall-style plugins etc. I really right now, just need membership features like: Profiles/Extended, Instant Message, friend add, Invite, video cam abilities, Posting to MAIN Blog Abilities, and upload abilitites of photos, video, and music to profiles, and main galleries of website. …The last feature I need to make the website and vision work flawlessly, is….A way that I (ADMIN) can charge members 3-5% of EVERY sale from our site store, and it goes directly into MY PAYPAL account 1st…THEN they can have the balance added to their Paypal accounts which THEY can set-up while editing their profiles, or registering for a Paid Membership option. Is This Possible. Anyone here that can help me put ALL OF THIS (Plugins) together, PLEASE reply with details on which Plugins to use, and point me to any Videos/Tutorials that may help with CLEAR set-up and implementation. Thanks In Advance…Blessings.