Hey, I'm a co-organizer, about to become organizer of the WordPress Hampton Roads Meetup group. Just want to give a shout out. We're based in the Norfolk/Virginia Beach/Chesapeake area, though we've had people come to our meetup from Newport News/Hampton area.
Here's our Meetup page: http://www.meetup.com/WordPresshr/
There's no scheduled meetup for this month yet, because I've got a big project to clear from my plate before I plan the next one (our last was mid-November), but I hope to hold one, even if it's just a co-working day, in late Jan. Otherwise, we'll meet again in Feb.