And what, the volunteers don't know how to help?
That does sometimes happen and really is why we sometimes say things like "Seek professional aid via http://jobs.wordpress.net/". We're not doing that to be obtuse or unhelpful but because we genuinely want you to be able to resolve your problem.
I think it is inappropriate for anyone to say to me 'i' have a grudge
Let's start over again. While you are frustrated people here are trying to help you. Please keep in mind that you are being helped here by volunteers doing this on their own time for your benefit.
- You can't log into your WordPress installation because your site may be hacked
If you are hacked then you really need to work your way through those links Esmi provided. This is a self-help forum and we can't do the work for you. We can and do provide advice and I hope you'll take that advice as intended.
- You can't login because of problems with your user ID or password
If your site is not hacked (can we get a link to your site? I may have missed that) then the other advice that Esmi provided is right on target.
- You can't login because of some other reason
It could be something else. But for us to assist you you'll have to provide us some information and try some of the steps in those articles to determine that.