Thank you for the help on my previous problem geting the calendar for Include/Exclude occurrences visable. For now this Event plugin is by far the best free one, but there is one feature that would make this the best one on the market even compaired to the ones you have to pay for.
Instead of having a costum post type, like you have used so far, I would recomend you to change to use the default post type. There was a couple of events plugin that used the default post type, but Events Calendar changed this with 1.6 and the other one that had this feature is outdated and removed from the wordpress plugin database. The only one on the market right now is ternCal, but they have put up a expecive price to buy the plugin.
I know you have witten about adding the the event custom post to the loop, but is not always enough when using custom themes :(