I received this from Dreamhost support. It appears as I have found that many of the emails are getting through, but some are not, particularly my wife's email and a couple others at gmail, I know of, but my gmail is getting through.. So if he can't see the emails getting created for some of the addresses, but everything looks right, then do you have any other ideas?
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I looked over your Subscribe2 settings and didn't notice any issues.
Emails sent from your site that cannot be delivered are not lost, but
bounce back to the server user who hosts the site that sent the email.
You can view them (they are just text files) in the Maildir/new and
Maildir/cur directories on the webserver. I reviewed a few of those to
find out more information about what's happening.
Some emails that were sent from your site and not blocked by our policy
were rejected by the recipient mail servers. This situation is a "mail
block"; Hotmail and bellsouth.net mail servers are blocking all emails
sent from an IP address used by one of our mail servers. We do care
about this immensely, and have a Mail Block team that works on these
issues constantly. Our Mail Blocks Team is in discussion with the
blocklist maintainers with regard to this, and we are hopeful we can
prevail upon them to remove the block soon. I will leave this support
request open and move it to their attention, so they can use it in their
efforts to have the blocks lifted.
I did not find any record of emails sent from your site to
<email@example.com>. If you have any other questions or issues, please
let me know, I'm always happy to help!
--- This is TJ again, thank you for your help with this, I'm sorry its taking so long to resolve... i just wish I knew why some are getting generated and others aren't