I wish I could give it ZERO stars for now... I just loaded Mingle on a test install and immediately told me I did not have permission to access the page that normally says plugin installed. From then on I was unable to login to any account until I went in and deleted the mingle folder... I won't both trying to load it again as either there is a serious bug with WP3.5 and Buddypress or it is a trojan... Let me know if you find out otherwise.