@Samuel B
Actually, I have seen a lot of this forums, and if you don't get a good answer the first time or two, people later who might have responded often won't because of the larger number of replies.
Also, yeah, I was frustrated, but not to the point of what you thought. People on the internet read into emotions too much. They have a habit of reading between the lines of what is said to interpret the emotion that a person had when typing.
It doesn't work for me. I don't have emotions in a sense (pretend you believe me). You gotta take my words literally and at face value. I don't need to "get a grip". Like what I am saying now-- it's not about how I feel, or about criticizing you. I'm just saying this for literal, practical, informative reasons.
But thanks for trying to help.