I just went through this problem and noticed that many people had it and there were all sorts of super techie answers. This ended up being my super simple answer.
Problem: I had logged in to my website using /wp-admin and there was no longer andy drop down options for Plugins and no button for Themes.
Solution: I clicked on Network admin in the top right. All the buttons I was looking for were there.
I don't know the program all that well but thought it might help someone else to post this!