yes, i know, it gotta be my theme. But my premium theme doesnt provide support for plugin issues :-( So ive got buddypress installed and functional ( i can in fact directly enter URL's to buddypress settings pages) but there is no menu for it. I think it has to do with my theme creating a menu right below the "dashboard" menu item, where buddypress should be. Anything i can do? its driving me crazy! thanks for any help.