You want a query string to trigger your plugin. Got it.
I haven't found a need to do that sort of stuff so I'm just tossing out some suggestions you might try.
Try doing some tests to see what works. Example, make a test plugin with something like this maybe :
add_action('template_redirect','my_whatever');
function my_whatever() {
print_r($_GET);
echo '<br/>';
print_r($REQUEST);
if ($_GET['x'] = 'abc') do_my_other_function();
}
So when you get some output you can "hook" into it based on what you see. If you're looking for "?x=abc" and you see it in the $_GET array then you know you can "hook" via $_GET. Or maybe through $REQUEST.
See Codex plugin API for details on template_redirect.
http://codex.wordpress.org/Plugin_API
I don't know how xdforum works and I don't have time to examine the code to reverse engineer it for you. . . Hopefully this tidbit helps though.
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