blog-in-blog/how do i hide from HP/ only list excerpts?

Hi!

I have installed the blog0in-blog to a client site and need a little help….

My “blog” posts are going to the right place (Blog page) but they are also appearing on the homepage as well and I would like them not to….what file (the instructions says this can be changed in the administrative page-but unless I’m missing something I dont see an admin page-I have to go into the editor where there are about five different files and dig through that) contains this setting and what does the code look like, and what do I need to change it to?

Also I would like the entire post not to show, rather just the title or perhaps a small excerpt in stead…

Anybody more familiar with this than me (and thats not saying much, lol- because I know nothing about this plug-in!!!)

Any help is really appreciated:)

if it helps the link to the testsite I’m working on is http://maatmatters.org/testsite/?page_id=249