Enabling Refers and Editing Blog

In response to the post that I put on http://wordpress.org/support/2/6133 I would like to say thank you guys for the help and telling me to make the Sybject a little more descriptive. Sorry for the Caps sometimes! lol…
But I would just like to ask you guys this question:
I have been trying to figure out how to just show what is being posted in my Blog… I do not want the blog that is posted on my site @ to http://www.x-tremeinteractive.com/blab
I wanted the site to look similar to the one thats on the old b2 website @ http://www.cafelog.com/
Here is my 2 websites that i currently have http://www.x-tremeinteractive.com & http://www.weownyou.net
I am into Computer Gaming and I would really like to make a blog that post the messages on my homepage without showing the ugly page thats on http://www.x-tremeinteractive.com/blab
So I tried to start editing my own but I dont know if I am doing it right you can see that here http://www.x-tremeinteractive.com/blog
lol…but as soon as I get these refers together I can finally delete the messed up messages I posted!
And ROOT and other members have been a real good help and I did get through the ‘mysql’ stuff it was pretty easy so I know this might be too. Well any suggestions let me know
So if anyone can tell me how to set this up in a column style let me know!
And also if someone would like to join a gaming clan called Clan-X…fill out application here http://www.x-tremeinteractive.com/apply