Hi Prasad,
I was unable to connect to your site to check it out before writing this.
BUT
Am I understanding this right - You can see the socialbar and gadgdets on other peoples computers, but not yours?
If so, try making sure that there are no "ad blockers" installed on your computer that are conflicting with it. (Maybe it's time to check out google chrome or firefox too!)
Side note, the default installation of IE (without any 3rd party ad blockers) should not have a problem loading Friend Connect at all.
If it is an adblocker of some sort, I'd be curious to find out what software is the culprit.
Regards,
SocialMind