Thank you Ziyphr for your reply, unfortunately I had already read this article, but found it not entirely usely as this is for within your mac os X system and I am more interested in how to connect to my servers to achieve the same result.
So where I am stuck at the moment is what command to use at first?
I tried: SSH "mydomain name" but I just get a timeout result
and tried: SSH "username"@"mydoamin name" and that timed out as well.
I also tried the simple: ftp "mydomain name" and was able to connect to my servers ftp service but when I tried the ln -s that did not work.
Am I supposed to get a special username and different domain name from my servers?
Thank you any way and keep the info coming.