login refresh and page redirect

I’m not sure if this is going beyond the intended functionality of this plug in or not but I thought I would give it a try.

This is very close to what I am looking for with a couple exceptions.

1) If a visitor of my site enters the wrong username or password it automatically redirects to the standard “wordpress login” page. I would like the page to simply refresh and try again.

2) {this is the part I’m really not sure about} When a visitor logs in that visitor automatically gets redirected to their respective page. So, I have a page specified to be viewed by “user1”. As soon as “user1” logs in successfully they are automatically redirected to “their” page.

Is there a way to accomplish this or am I going beyond the intent here?

http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/user-specific-content/